Customize Your Lovemaking Pleasure
If you are in an intimate and loving lesbian relationship, using sex toys can increase the level of pleasure of lovemaking. Amongst lesbians, using a strap-on dildo is popular, basically because strap-ons can be an exceptionally exciting and endlessly rewarding toy that can bring a great level of contact to sex.
So Why Use a Strap-on?
Being a lesbian means you are attracted to women and not men, that being said, it doesn’t mean that your vagina is numb and is unable to enjoy penetration. The truth is, a person’s sexual orientation has nothing to do with certain sex acts. For example, lots of straight men have their women peg them with strap-ons and they aren’t gay. So, the following are some of the types of strap-ons available in the market.
The Different Types
Strap-ons come in many different styles, but the thing that should be considered most is the harness. Essentially, any dildo with a flared base can be turned into a strap-on by using a harness. Harnesses are made of several different materials, leather being the most common. Leather is also more comfortable against the skin, and keeping it clean and polished can provide the user with a lifetime of sexy fun. Harnesses are also available in nylon, fabric, and vinyl. Fabrics are machine washable and vinyl is easily cleaned with soap and water. For beginners, using the G-string style between the legs provides direct pressure to the genitals during use. Also, for dual penetration, there is the double dildo compatible harness.
If you are feeling awkward about that thing dangling between your legs, well don’t be, because using a strap-on dildo takes some practice, as it becomes like a new appendage. Most importantly, plenty of water-based lube should be used, penetrating gently with the fingers before charging in with the dildo is also a good idea.
Strap-ons are also very helpful for men who suffer from erectile dysfunction. This is a problem which can often lead to sexual dissatisfaction between couples. Men that suffer from this problem can use this toy to satiate the physical urge of their partner. The strap-on can also come in handy for straight couples who can also try out double penetration by using these sex toys to increase their level of pleasure.
How to Strap it On: Stroke it In and Out
While wearing a strap on dildo you should always form a ring with your finger and thumb around the bottom of the shaft of the dildo. After that, slide the dildo through that ring as you guide it into her…well you get the picture!
Width however is a very crucial area when considering buying these sex toys, mainly because a dildo that is too wide will be too uncomfortable to be pleasurable and will most likely be spending a lot of time packed up in the box. It is always good to remember that in strap-on play, wanting more, not less, is best. With the endless range of styles and sizes, a strap-on dildo can bring an exciting new expression into the bedroom for lesbian couples.